You be you; sois toi-meme

We always experience that people lose their job, their privileges, their friends, their health even; Why, because,they have lost first their self confidence. They're so attentive to what people around think, talk about. Never  you'll give or tell the truth to somebody. You be you. I'd tell you  that no one tells truth, only we receive the truth. How, you can make the greater effort  to convince with your arguments or your behavior, if it conceived as lie, never it may become truth for that person. You can also live in a duplicity, lie  if the one who lives with you believe in you,; he has confidence in you, everything would accepted as truth. Tell me why are you making yourself to unconfortable situation looking to superman or superwoman. Live ordinary and do what you have to do in your daily life with optimistic mind. Be focused to your  objective, your life, yourself. Don't lose your power, your self estime and don't think bad to your own life. It that one your first vocation. Oook?